I watched that happen to a coworker at Tekserve once. She wasn't as nice about it as you were. Ack. It probably had more to do with what you were wearing, or it may be that the weight that you've gained back has not gone to your face and limbs at all, and so you are carrying more of it in your stomach area comparatively. Or it may be just that she is a stupid bitch. :) I will never understand anyone asking that unless they are absolutely sure. The consequences of being wrong are so huge. In fact, I think I must conclude that she IS a stupid bitch, regardless of anything else.
*hugs*